As a novice Nan of a boy I was stumped when it came to cleansing.
His face, arms, feet,legs are familiar. His boyological equipment was not, then there are the wrinkles.

Elliot was found scrubbing the toilet with his toothbrush. ‘ Clean clean’ was happily mumbled. A telling off, a congratulations for cleaning or a diversion?

As a new Nan I am supporting cast, not centre stage. How do I help these new parents when they are the ones who need to get to know their son first ?