As a novice Nan of a boy I was stumped when it came to cleansing.
His face, arms, feet,legs are familiar. His boyological equipment was not, then there are the wrinkles.
I was born of a woman. I am a woman. I gave birth to what is now a beautiful strong woman.
And then came the news “It’s a boy”. So what would be different about having a boy?
Giving boys and girls the language and understanding to close the gender divide is a battle we can win together